Confident girl: Backhanded compliments, shows affections mostly with tepid gestures.
Needy girl: Must give her a lot of support, attention, and validation. Confident girl: She’ll bitch and complain about things, but nothing where the tears flow. Needy girls can remain single for a long time until they select a mate while desperate girls have trouble doing so.
Do you get so excited about a new friendship or relationship that you bombard the other person with attention, only to find that the person starts to seem distant?
If you find yourself wanting to call, text, or e-mail someone a whole lot more than they contact you, you've probably figured out that neediness is a turn-off to most people. I feel a lot better about myself now, but there's still a long, long way to go.
That time he asked what you had going on, you were supposed to lie and say you had fabulous plans with a large group of friends. You said “nothing” and hoped that would be followed by an invitation. Now you’re some kind of Stage Five Clinger: “Danger,” they say, “This one’ll get too attached. She’s so thirsty it’s like she’s been in the desert.In the United States, it’s hard to find beautiful girls that are needy, but this isn’t the case in other cultures such as Brazil and Colombia, where besides for upper-class girls, you often have a pick between needy and desperate only. Did you think that the less you expected from a man, the more he’d like you?I will definitely try to do some of the things recommended, as I have nothing to lose. Black women have told me it's because I'm a sellout.