Why do great women pick people who treat them poorly? When you don’t get the love and attention you want, it may seem natural to give more.
Smart, beautiful, incredible individuals – who give 110% to a man who in return, are only half-vested, part-time, and approach the relationship with a “me”, not “we” mentality. You invest more – only to find yourself more disappointed, depleted and feeling insignificant with each attempt to create/repair the connection. Jeremy Nicholson calls the principle of “sunk costs”.
Women like this are efficient communicators and the nuances of texting aren't going to cut it. Strong women do not get jealous because they are secure enough in themselves to know what (and who) is worth their time, or what/who isn't. Strong, mature women are worldly, passionate and educated. You will not find a more trustworthy woman than a strong, independent one. Because she chooses what she wants out of life and she holds on to it when she gets it. She has lived her life with passion and excitement for long before she met you.
Sure, some texts throughout the day to keep in touch will work just fine, but your primary mode of communication will be over the phone or face-to-face (as it should be). If she is going to fully commit to you, she expects the same in return -- no games here. They are willing to have real conversations about real issues, and while there might be a "Real Housewives" episode playing in the background, her mind is still going a mile a minute about things that really matter. She probably has a stressful job that requires her to spend the day making decisions or dealing with other people's nonsense. Dating a strong woman is like strapping a jetpack to your back. When you are what she wants, she will give you her everything. Along this journey she developed hobbies, interests and has had unique experiences. When you are with a strong woman, there is no such thing as being bored.
It’s solely the outward expression of the relationship that they are going by.
If your friends or oldsters are telling you that this lady may be a downside. Listen terribly fastidiously concerning what it’s that they’re seeing.
When it comes to attracting the opposite sex, do you sometimes feel like you’re a tractor beam with a magnetic pull on Mr. The good news is that you don’t need a frontal lobotomy. Read on to see what attraction pitfalls you may have fallen prey to, as well as how to free yourself and become the attraction rock star you were born to be!
And if so, are you frustrated by your lackluster results in the love department?
You know deep down inside that the person is not right for you, but make justifications and excuses over and over again. They are the ones waiting on their partner, doing good deeds, buying gifts, etc. So, they are not at all in love or committed.” Before you engage in another act of love, ask yourself what your true intention is.In a sense, you seek comfort in that familiar scenario – even if it is one filled with angst.These are attractions of deprivation, and it’s possible it stems from your childhood.” or “I deserve real and lasting love.” Reflect on any other destructive patterns you’re stuck in, and determine what you need to kick them to the curb.Remember, whatever you focus on expands so turn your back on attraction pitfalls and create a new story for yourself.