Don’t give out your address until you’re in an established, in-person relationship. If distance creates too great an obstacle to meet up in the near future, at least employ Skype to give you both a little face time. If anything sounds strange or unbelievable, ask questions. Beware of premature declarations of love or requests for sexy photos from your online crush. If the person you met online is hesitant to meet in person and continues to make excuses as to why he/she can’t Skype with you, the relationship likely has no future — and something sketchy might be going on. If the person is defensive, you’re likely on to something. Most members of e Harmony are genuine people who are sincerely looking for a new relationship, but with any walk of life you will get the occasional bad apple.This may be someone who misrepresents themselves; behaves inappropriately or attempts to take advantage of vulnerable members.We believe in empowering you to make the best choices by providing guidance and support to help you discover your best qualities and those of your potential partners throughout your search.
Listen to your feelings and take appropriate action.We are dedicated to helping ensure the safety of our members and do all we can to keep you safe but ultimately it is your responsibility.Use the guidelines and advice pages and remember these important points below to ensure your online dating experience is a safe and happy one. Your instincts are the best guide you have as to whether someone is genuine or not.This may simply mean that you get to know them better before agreeing to meet.For a match to be right for you it has to feel right to you.