In other words, they perceived certain women as “Park Avenue Princesses.” In face, The Park Avenue Princess was the #4 most common reason men lost interest in a woman after viewing her online dating profile, exchanging emails, or going on a first or second date.
Men have their radar up for gold diggers whom they think are looking to marry a lifestyle along with their man.
So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. It doesn’t make good business sense to “buy you” (which is what you’re asking) so I’d rather lease.
Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a buy and hold… In case you think I’m being cruel, I would say the following.
Don’t jump to conclusions, says Susan Newman, a social psychologist and author of “Nobody’s Baby Now: Reinventing Your Adult Relationship with Your Mother and Father” (Bloomsbury Publishing, 2009).
Spend lots of time with your dad and his new love interest.
Well, I have news for you…when you’re indulging in these “philanthropic” activities, the attractive gold digger seated at the bar is gauging your worth and is making mental notes about how to make a move on you.
Fortunately, there are a few cues you could look for if you want to spot a gold digger.
A meeting between your dad and an elder-law or estate-planning attorney can organize the financial documents that might ease everyone’s mind, including Goldie’s.I’m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she’s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. Give me specifics — bars, restaurants, gyms – What are you looking for in a mate? Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I’m being up front about it.I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don’t think I’m overreaching at all. I dated a business man who makes average around 200 – 250. Be honest guys, you won’t hurt my feelings – Is there an age range I should be targeting (I’m 25)? I wouldn’t be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn’t able to match them — in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.I interviewed 1,000 men to find out what really happened after a dating disconnect.Many men described women whom they stereotyped as overly interested in money or overly focused on acquiring or maintaining a lavish lifestyle.